One of the early questions in a wedding planning journey is what expenses the bride and groom pays for individually. While most people understand the financial responsibilities when it comes to traditional marriage, there’s often debate about the division of expenses for the white wedding.
Some believe that the same traditional cost-sharing should apply, while others argue that the groom should cover all expenses for the white wedding. I belong to the school of thought that if we are adopting the concept of a white wedding, we should also adopt the accompanying traditions.
Understanding these expenses can help make the planning process smooth and stress-free. In todays post, we breakdown the key wedding expenses a groom and his family typically are supposed to pay. We also have alongside, wedding expenses that should be covered by bridesmaids team and bride.
What Expenses of a Traditional Wedding Should a Groom Cover?
1. The Marriage List
In Ghanaian cultures, the bride’s family is responsible for preparing and presenting the marriage list(Akan and Ewe lists) to the groom and his groom and his family. This list includes various items that are presented to her family during the traditional marriage process. Before, any other form of marriage can take place in Ghana, the traditional marriage should have already taken place. That is why most Ghanaian marriages are 2 in 1 fold.
2. The Engagement Ring
The engagement ring is a symbol of commitment. It is often presented to the bride on the day of the traditional marriage ceremony in the presence of both families.
The White Wedding Expenses He Should Pay For.
When it comes to the white wedding, the bride and groom typically pays for the expenses, with the possibility of family contributions being optional. In practice, many families may not be able to contribute to all wedding expenses, even in traditional marriages. This leaves the couple to manages the costs associated with the venue, catering, décor, and other reception elements. It’s often more feasible and stress-reducing for the couple to manage what they can and have. This approach ensures that the wedding stays within budget and avoids placing undue financial pressure on any one party.
3. Wedding Rings
In addition to the engagement ring, the groom is responsible for purchasing the wedding rings or just the bride’s ring. This is all dependent on the arrangement between them. Ideally, a man should buy the brides ring and the bride, his. Exchanging the rings signify your token of love for each other. Besides, no one should make a promise with something that isn’t theirs right?
4. Marriage License Fees
For a union to be official, it needs to be registered. Therefore, every costs associated with obtaining a marriage license should be borne by the groom.
5. Groom’s Attire
The groom’s attire, whether a Kente, Agbada, suit and all its associated accessories are another key expense. And all these should be covered by him.
6. Groomsmen’s Gifts
Groomsmen gift are your way of thanking the boys for being with you and by you on your big day. It’s customary and shouldn’t be a big deal. These gifts can range from personalized items to practical accessories for the wedding day.
7. Transportation
The groom most often handles transportation for the wedding day. This includes arranging transportation for the himself and his party, the bride and her party and any additional needs for guests or the couple.
8. Honeymoon
I personally believe the planning and financing of the honeymoon should be done by the couple. This is because, its a special trip that will allow the newlyweds to relax, bond and enjoy each other’s company after the wedding.
HELPFUL GUIDES TO PLAN YOUR WEDDING.
- Long Bridesmaid Dress Styles : Stunning Inspirations for Every Wedding.
- Eye-Catching Wedding Guest Dress Styles to Wear This Year.
- The Ladies Who Brought Their A-Game to #TGMA2024(Wedding Guest Inspo).
While these pointers outlined aren’t the standard, they should serve as a guide to intending couples. Remember, each wedding is unique, and modern couples often adapt traditions that suit their preferences. The most important thing is to celebrate your love and commitment. Happy planning!
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